By Bill & Stephanie Lammers

Know who you are. Know who you married. Know what you are building together.

A Christ-centered marriage journey that helps each of you understand who God made you to be, honor who your spouse is, and build a shared purpose.

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Free to download. One membership covers you both.

Connect: today's question, with Lauren's note to Micah and his note back to her

The app

A few small habits, together.

1 Daily Deposit. 1 Weekly Pivot (Grace Place). 1 Monthly Check-In (Proper Portions). No streaks, no guilt.

Micah's Snapshot result: how he communicates, with a note that Lauren's is in — **Start with a snapshot** About five minutes each. How you communicate, and how you are most loved.

Know who you married: what Lauren needs to hear and how to reach her — **What your spouse needs** What your spouse needs to hear, and how to reach them.

Grace Place guiding Micah to ask Lauren, out loud, where she needs support — **Grace Place** A weekly conversation on one phone, one step at a time.

See everything in the app · Practice Grace Place

Do not wait for distance to become your normal. See why everyday connection matters and practice grace-filled communication.

The study

Eight sessions, for the two of you or a whole group.

Each session has a short video from Bill & Stephanie, a story from their marriage, Scripture, and questions to talk through together. Read it free online, or print the workbook.

Grace in communication means choosing to understand before demanding to be understood. Listen for the heart, needs, and perspective of the person in front of you. Understand 2 Serve.

Intro · Mission Portrait · Intrigue · No · Venture Out · Examine · Safeguard · Teachable Spirit

“The INVEST curriculum has such practical applications that refreshed so much in our marriage that we were falling short in. We still apply so much of this curriculum in our weekly rhythms to reveal our best yes, and remind us what’s most important in our marriage!”

Engaged? INVEST Engaged is a short orientation and six conversations for the two of you before the wedding, and in the app every word is written for the marriage you are about to start.

“…helped us better understand our communication styles and how to communicate in ways that allow each other to feel heard and understood.”

Open the study INVEST Engaged

For churches and groups

Bring INVEST to your church.

The videos do the teaching. You guide the conversation. No counseling degree or teaching experience required.

“The INVEST Marriage curriculum has been a game-changer for our church. It's practical, engaging, and easy to implement, making it simple for small group leaders to pour into marriages.”

“We fell in love with the curriculum… I would say we were coasting before and after we are thriving. It taught us so much about keeping God at the center and loving each other well.”

Digital

$39 per couple

The digital workbook with permission to print locally, and a video and guide for every session.

Printed

$59 per couple + shipping

Everything in Digital, professionally printed and ready to hand out.

A larger group or several locations? Volume pricing is available.

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About

Bill & Stephanie Lammers

Bill and Stephanie wrote INVEST Marriage together. They founded Wildfire Leadership, and have been married for nearly three decades, with four children.

INVEST began on the back porch of a small cabin, when they stopped and asked each other honest questions about the marriage God was inviting them to build. The rhythms they found that weekend became this study.

Read their story in Session One

Stay connected

Hear from Bill & Stephanie.

You'll get a short note from them with one next step for where you are. Marriage and premarital retreats are being planned: tick the box and you'll hear first when dates are set.

“INVESTING in your marriage is so necessary to stay healthy & such a game changer, everything else (especially the home!) flows from it.”