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Book recommendations
- Wildfire Daily Journal — a powerful tool to ignite intentional living, gratitude, and purpose every day.
- Discovering Joy in Your Lane, by Stephanie Lammers — a guide to finding joy and fulfillment in the path God designed for you.
- Flip the Script: Set Your Mind Free, by Bill Lammers — transform lies and negative thoughts into empowering truths, to unlock freedom in every area of your life.
For books and additional resources, visit wildfireleadership.com/resources. The Flip the Script App walks you step by step through the process of flipping the script — available at getflipthescript.com.
About Wildfire Leadership
Wildfire Leadership comes alongside businesses, schools, churches, families, and individuals to help people uncover their purpose — equipping and advising them with practical, simple tools and proven strategies to unleash their potential.
- Mission Portrait — a daily visual reminder of who you are and your mission; a compass pointing you to your purpose of making a difference in the lives of others.
- 7 Igniters — each stage of your journey ignites something within you that unleashes your potential; the 7 Igniters curriculum brings action to your Mission Portrait.
- INVEST Marriage — rediscover intrigue, set boundaries, embrace adventures, improve communication, safeguard your relationship, and maintain a teachable spirit.
- INVEST Marriage app — the companion to both INVEST Marriage and INVEST Engaged, launching through the Apple App Store and Google Play. Use it for individual and couple GRACE reports, Understand 2 Serve, the Communication Simulator, Daily Deposits, daily marriage tidbits, dinner and Date Night Questions, Mission Portrait, Grace Place, saved tools, and ongoing 1-1-1 reminders.
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Before the wedding
Use this as a calm final check, not a last-minute test.
- Complete GRACE and discuss what helps each person communicate and receive love.
- Bring all important financial information into the light and hold your first money meeting.
- Agree on family, holiday, time, and physical boundaries for this season.
- Name your first 1-1-1 rhythm and place it on the calendar.
- Contact at least one trusted person or mentor couple for your Stretch Team.
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